Right, let me get straight into it. I suffer from a serious condition that keeps messing me up and now is the time to do something about it. I need help. This condition is called ‘havingexpectationsofothersitus’. In other words, I foolishly have expectations of some people. Especially those close to me. I know it is not wise to do this and I still end up in the same trap.
Although I know expectations can lead to disappointment, I often end up hurting and having to do the healing work. I am evidently a slow learner.
I get burned often because I instinctively offer so much of my heart. I know in my mind what I offer. I’m now chuckling to myself and thinking, there’s probably someone who knows me pretty well, they’re reading this and saying to themself, they expected more from me at some point 🤦🏾♀️. To those individuals, I am sorry if you’ve felt let down by me.
Now I’m reaching out. What are your thoughts around having expectations? Are you like me and suffer with ‘havingexpectationsofothersitus’ ? If not, what advice would you offer? I no longer want to attach myself to having expectations of anything or anyone. I know this condition comes from something or somewhere deep rooted and I’m sure this will be addressed at some point. Until then, I would love the community to let me know their thoughts and share positive tips and perspectives.
Thanking you in advance ❤